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Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
3.0 star property
Big Sur
8.4 out of 10, Very good, (1,001 reviews)
"Great stay and good food at the restaurant!"
United States
Brian and Nan
The price is RM539
RM617 total
includes taxes & fees
6 Dec - 7 Dec
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
4.5 star property
Posts
9.0 out of 10, Wonderful, (346 reviews)
"Fantastic spot, great restaurant, even better views."
United States
Christopher G
The price is RM5,517
RM6,569 total
includes taxes & fees
17 Nov - 18 Nov
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
2.5 star property
Carmel Valley
8.8 out of 10, Excellent, (341 reviews)
"Our room was clean and the location quiet. We would definitely stay again!"
Canada
Deborah
The price is RM529
RM591 total
includes taxes & fees
15 Nov - 16 Nov
Hidden Valley Inn
A hotel with a stone waterfall, wooden steps, and lush greenery.

4. Tradewinds Carmel

Tradewinds Carmel
3.5 star property
Downtown Carmel
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (1,003 reviews)
"Great location and staff and breakfast. Lovely amenities too."
United States
Melissa
The price is RM715
RM809 total
includes taxes & fees
15 Dec - 16 Dec
Tradewinds Carmel
A room with a large window overlooking the sea, a wooden chair, a small round table, and a chandelier.

5. Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property

Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
3.5 star property
Retreat
9.6 out of 10, Exceptional, (605 reviews)
"Nice room, great view, good breakfast spread, great location"
United States
Randall
The price is RM632
RM721 total
includes taxes & fees
16 Nov - 17 Nov
Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.

6. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
4.0 star property
Monterey
8.6 out of 10, Excellent, (870 reviews)
"The place is amazing. We bought wood and did a bond fire in the beach. Staff was super friendly and helpful. I will return to this hotel each time I stay in the Monterey area."
United States
Juan
The price is RM743
RM1,005 total
includes taxes & fees
29 Nov - 30 Nov
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A hotel room with two single beds, a nightstand with a lamp, and a mirror on the wall.

7. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
3.0 star property
Northwest Carmel
8.6 out of 10, Excellent, (1,004 reviews)
"Nice location and we liked the room"
United States
Alla
The price is RM428
RM527 total
includes taxes & fees
18 Nov - 19 Nov
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A patio with a round table and chairs, a large umbrella, and potted plants.

8. Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn

Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
2.5 star property
Downtown Carmel
7.6 out of 10, Good, (1,000 reviews)
"Comfortable hotel and easy walk to the beach."
United States
Carol
The price is RM435
RM568 total
includes taxes & fees
13 Dec - 14 Dec
Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
A hotel room with two beds, a television, a lamp, and a view of trees through large windows.

9. Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay

Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
2.0 star property
Casanova Oak Knoll
8.0 out of 10, Very good, (1,217 reviews)
"Great location."
United States
Julio
The price is RM286
RM333 total
includes taxes & fees
15 Nov - 16 Nov
Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
A two-story house with a wrap-around porch, a chimney, and a well-maintained garden.

10. Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
3.0 star property
New Monterey
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (1,553 reviews)
"This was a great place to stay! It was clean, quiet, breakfast was good, and a great place to explore from!"
United States
Erin
The price is RM621
RM708 total
includes taxes & fees
6 Dec - 7 Dec
Victorian Inn
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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?

Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.

What is the top LGBTQ-friendly place to stay in Big Sur?

Alila Ventana Big Sur is a top LGBTQ-friendly resort, and features 2 outdoor pools and free WiFi. Big Sur Lodge is another good option for your holiday.

How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?

There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.

What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?

During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Andrew Molera State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, McWay Falls and Los Padres National Forest.

What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?

LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.

What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?

Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.